Chipwe chocho, mukwa-kupompa ni kukolesa umwenemwene. Ndiwowoneka bwino kwambiri mpaka adaganiza zowonetsa maliseche ake. Eya, mlongoyo sakanatha kukana mwamuna wokongola chotero ndipo anaganiza zokumana ndi tambala payekha. Ndi mphamvu yotani ya umuna, ndipo kotero mutha kutulutsa diso, ndi bwino kuti mlongoyo sanatsamwidwe.
Azimayi ambiri amachita zambiri kuposa pamenepo akakhala okha. Koma malamulo opangidwawo salola kuti azimasuka ndi okondedwa. Palibe chifukwa chomwe amanenera, kuti mkazi wanzeru ali ndi mutu wake, wopusa ali nawo mkamwa mwake. Ndikudziwanso amuna amene amakana ufulu woterowo.