Ndipotu, ndi chowonadi chotsimikiziridwa. Palibe amene angakane maphunziro otere a nkhonya, aone momwe amayamwa mwaukali khosi lake lalikulu, ndipo akuwoneka kuti akusangalala nazo. Nthawi zambiri ndikuganiza kuti chiwombankhanga choterocho chidzakhala chozoloŵera kwa iwo tsopano, chifukwa sangathe kuyima pamalingaliro omwe adalandira, adzafuna zambiri, ndipo mowonjezereka, tiyenera kuyang'ana.
Mwana wopezayo anaganiza kuti kunyambita machende a abambo ake opeza ndi kukhala pa tambala kunali kosangalatsa kwambiri kusiyana ndi kuseri kwa mabuku ake ophunzirira, choncho adamunyengerera. Tsopano chinsinsi ichi pakati pawo chidzawapangitsa kukhala oyandikana wina ndi mzake.
Mnyamata wokonzeka bwanji adawonekera, palibe nthawi yoti avule mathalauza ake, ndipo pali kale tambala wodzaza. Chabwino atsikana achichepere ndithudi ndi okongola, oterowo ndipo amafunika kukokedwa mozama. Momwemonso, kugonana kwanthawi zonse sikunali kokwanira ndipo achinyamata adaganiza zokulitsa mabulu awo ndikugonana kumatako.